what you need or what you want??

Had an interesting ym with my fren today~~ we talk about the uncertain of the future ahead.....

to me everything has been fixed for us by god.... but to get what we want in life we still have to work hard for it.... not everything is handed down to u on silver platter... but at the end, if u work hard for it then u able to get what u want dats will be worth a billion appreciation... but somehow if you don't get it all you have to do pull your self together and get on with your life.... have you ever heard the saying that  life will give you what you need and not what you want, because sometime whats best for you is not what u think it is....

So how do u know what's best for you?? You will never know until when u actually have it then you see why everything happens..... you will felt just right and the life you know before is incomplete..... as for me, I still have dreams or as I call it my wish list that I wanted to be fulfilled.... do I have to concentrate and get it one at the time?? NO..... because for me, everything that had been written in fate to you has got when and what and how been fixed with it.... but in order for me to get it I still have to work for it.... for an instant, I wanted to own a car, I need to work and save up in order to buy one... or I wanted to have a permanent job, I still have to go to interview or exam or even study~~~~ it won't just fall into your lap from the sky.....

but, never stop wishing and dreaming because thats what motivates you to work harder~~~